We will have genuine joy and happiness only as we learn patience.
Dictionaries define patience in such terms as bearing pain or sorrow
calmly or without complaint; not being hasty or impetuous; being
steadfast despite opposition, difficulty, or adversity.
I believe that
a lack of patience is a major cause of the difficulties and unhappiness in the world today. Too often, we are impatient with ourselves, with our family members and friends, and even with the Lord. We seem to
demand what we want right now, regardless of whether we have earned it, whether it would be good for us, or whether it is right.
We should not be unduly discouraged nor in despair at any time
when we are doing the best we can. Rather, we should be satisfied with our progress even though it may come slowly at times.
We should be patient in developing and strengthening our testimonies. Rather than expecting immediate or spectacular manifestations, though they will come when needed, we should pray for a testimony, study the scriptures, follow the counsel of our prophet and other Church leaders, and live the principles of the gospel.
Our testimonies then will grow and mature naturally, perhaps imperceptibly at times, until they become
driving forces in our lives.
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