Saturday, September 04, 2021

The Patriarchs — An Elegy by Simon Armitage

The weather in the window this morning

is snow, unseasonal singular flakes,
a slow winter’s final shiver. On such an occasion
to presume to eulogise one man is to pipe up
for a whole generation – that crew whose survival
was always the stuff of minor miracle,
who came ashore in orange-crate coracles,
fought ingenious wars, finagled triumphs at sea
with flaming decoy boats, and side-stepped torpedoes.

Husbands to duty, they unrolled their plans
across billiard tables and vehicle bonnets,
regrouped at breakfast. What their secrets were
was everyone’s guess and nobody’s business.
Great-grandfathers from birth, in time they became
both inner core and outer case
in a family heirloom of nesting dolls.
Like evidence of early man their boot-prints stand
in the hardened earth of rose-beds and borders.

They were sons of a zodiac out of sync
with the solar year, but turned their minds
to the day’s big science and heavy questions.
To study their hands at rest was to picture maps
showing hachured valleys and indigo streams, schemes
of old campaigns and reconnaissance missions.
Last of the great avuncular magicians
they kept their best tricks for the grand finale:
Disproving Immortality and Disappearing Entirely.

The major oaks in the wood start tuning up
and skies to come will deliver their tributes.
But for now, a cold April’s closing moments
parachute slowly home, so by mid-afternoon
snow is recast as seed heads and thistledown.

—Simon Armitage, UK poet laureate, on Prince Philip's passing (April 2021)

Tuesday, February 09, 2021

2021: Finish What You Start

I don't usually pick themes or even make specific new year's resolutions, but this year I want to make a stronger effort to finish what I start (or acknowledge it's not worth doing and move on). I feel like the queen of unfinished projects and books.. anyone who knows me will not be surprised by this at all.

Actually, shortly before Bruce and I started dating I felt inspired to do this with the relationships in my life. Either see them through or let them go--which led to Bruce entering my life, so clearly this is a good philosophy!

How it's going so far:

- I finally got the rest of my Christmas cards out the door in the first week of February,

- I just shipped some Valentine's packages to my nieces and nephews.

- I have been finishing the dishes every night before I go to bed. There may have been one or two days since the new year started that I haven't, and Bruce and the kids have definitely been the MVPs a few nights. I know this is probably basic adulting, but it's something I've always struggled with so I'm VERY proud of myself!

- I'm trying to prioritize reading books I already have (but haven't read yet) vs. checking out books from the library. I'm still getting some books, but my goal is to read 100 books from my to-read shelf (ahaha now you know what kind of a problem I have!) and then to get rid of them if I don't want them in our family library. I've already gotten rid of a handful of books, though trying to NOT buy books is a lot harder! Maybe I should bargain that I can buy a new one if I get rid of one... 

What's up for the next few weeks:

- Finish packing up Christmas decorations and books (I have a few items lingering around the house that need to be packed & labeled).

- I have been going through my stash of fabric and unfinished sewing projects. My goal is to sort them by project, discard anything I don't have plans for and then work on the projects before I buy anything new!

- My first sewing project to work on: an apron for our daughter. I'll try to post it when I finish!

- We set up our daughter in her own bedroom upstairs but she really wants to share a room with her brothers, so now all three of our kids are in one bedroom. I want to convert her old bedroom into my own study / library until the day she is ready for her own room (we'll see if I decide to give it back!)